You deserve to be supported in your writing journey.
A few months ago, I spent two weeks at the Autumn Women’s Coliving Camp, a collaboration between Digital Nomad Girls and Chateau Coliving, and the experience has been incredible for so many reasons. But what’s left the biggest impression on me is the women. These women have made me feel inspired, encouraged, accepted, and understood in ways I hadn’t realized I needed.
The Power of Community in Writing
As writers, I think we sometimes romanticize the solo creative pursuit. The image of the isolated writer, alone in a room, quietly crafting their story is a strong one. But after spending time in this supportive and empowering environment, I can tell you that it doesn’t always have to be that way—and I’d even argue it shouldn’t be.
The truth is, surrounding yourself with like-minded, creative people can completely transform your writing life. Being part of a community helps push you to grow, try new things, and overcome the fears that often hold us back when we’re working in isolation. Here at the coliving camp, being surrounded by this type of atmosphere has pushed me to grow, to play big, to take action where before I’ve been hesitating
This experience reminded me that writing doesn’t have to be a solitary struggle. It’s about finding the people who help you feel seen, who encourage you to be brave, and who inspire you to keep going. We all have the right to feel that kind of support.
Why Writers Need Community
Feeling inspired, encouraged, and understood doesn’t just help our confidence—it directly impacts our creativity. A strong community gives you the courage to take risks in your work, to push past self-doubt, and to break free of creative blocks. When you’re surrounded by people who get it, the weight of isolation lifts, and you can focus on what truly matters: creating.
How to Find Your Writing Community
Finding the right writing community can be transformative, but it’s important to explore your options thoughtfully. Here’s a guide to help you find a community that truly fits your needs:
- Define Your Goals and Needs: Before joining any group, take some time to define what you’re looking for. Are you seeking feedback, accountability, or motivation? Do you need a space to vent frustrations, or are you looking for critique partners to refine your work? Being clear on your needs will help guide your search.
- Group Size: For those who thrive on close connections and personalized feedback, a smaller writing group may be ideal. In these settings, you’re likely to receive in-depth critiques and build relationships with fellow writers. If you prefer more perspectives and a sense of energy, larger writing communities can provide varied insights and exposure to different writing styles. While you may not get as much direct feedback, the broad spectrum of ideas can be inspiring.
- Values and Culture: Every writing group has its own culture, and it’s essential to find one where you feel comfortable. Seek out groups where the core values and culture align with your own writing philosophy. Before joining, attend a session or two as a guest to get a feel for the group’s dynamics and ensure it’s a good fit for you.
- Frequency and Commitment: If you’re looking for accountability and structure, a group that meets regularly (weekly or bi-weekly) may be best. These sessions can keep you on track and motivated to write consistently. If your schedule is unpredictable, consider a group that meets monthly or offers drop-in sessions. These provide a looser structure while still offering the benefits of community without a rigid commitment.
- Level of Engagement: Some writing communities are heavily focused on peer critique and detailed feedback, perfect for writers actively looking to improve their work and prepare it for publication. If this is your goal, find a group where members are committed to providing constructive criticism. Other groups focus on support and camaraderie, providing a safe space for sharing progress, working through challenges, or simply writing in company. For those who value connection over critique, these groups offer emotional support and creative encouragement.
- Genre-Specific or Mixed Groups: Genre-specific writing groups can be incredibly helpful if you’re looking for targeted feedback from people who understand the nuances of your writing style, be it romance, fantasy, nonfiction, or poetry. Mixed groups, however, can offer broader perspectives and help you see your work through different lenses. If you’re open to experimenting with your writing or are looking for insights outside your genre, a mixed group might be a great fit.
- Technology and Location: If you prefer face-to-face interaction, look for local writing groups or workshops in your area. These can offer more direct engagement and foster stronger connections. For those with busy schedules or living in areas without access to in-person groups, online writing communities are a fantastic alternative. They offer flexibility and the chance to connect with writers from around the world. Browse social media groups or dedicated writing platforms to explore different communities. Many online groups offer free sessions, allowing you to explore multiple options before committing.
- Expectations and Leadership: Some writing communities are led by professional authors, writing coaches, or facilitators who offer structured guidance, exercises, or critiques. This can be beneficial if you’re looking for expert advice. Other groups operate more informally, with members taking turns leading discussions or providing feedback. These groups are often more flexible and collaborative but may require more self-direction.
- Long-Term Growth: Your needs as a writer will change as your work evolves, so consider joining a group that offers room for growth. Whether you’re just starting out or working on your tenth novel, finding a group that offers flexibility in feedback and engagement can help you stay inspired for the long haul.
You’ll Know It When You Find It
It may take some time to find a writing community that fits you. Try a few out and give them some time, but don’t be afraid to move on if it’s not right for you. When you find your people, you’ll know it.
Being around people who understand your struggles, celebrate your wins, and hold space for your creativity is invaluable. A writing group can be that home, and it can make all the difference in helping you find joy in the process, rather than struggling alone.
I encourage you to put in the effort to find your people. Writing may be a personal endeavor, but it doesn’t have to be a lonely one. When you find the right community, you’ll feel understood and supported in ways that will elevate not only your writing but your entire creative life.
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